One reason I have mentioned gratitude and volunteering is that some people find that either or both are helping them to feel good about themselves.
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There were times that a certain girl stayed for longer because her parents were late and she used to come to me and sit on my laps and sing and lough and I my heart rate was going like 120-150 bpm.
I think that those who are supposed to work with this stage of ontogeny are designed to positively stroke esteem in nascent personality development.
I love little girls they are incredibly beautiful but i would never hurt one.
I have tried looking for help in the internet, but doesnt really help.